16. ARE YOU SINGLE?
I want to talk on this topic because it can be important for you. If we want to live a successful life, so we should keep some things well in memory with us. We grow up slowly and get experience from books or people. We are in this process of development and then someone comes, from whom we get a new experience and it is completely new, this experience is what we call love, this is the most important experience that is found only by seeing. This love did not come from outside, it was in you and now it comes in your eyes and on your face, this experience means a lot to you. There is an intensity in you, there is a flow of energy in you, you like everything, you changed a lot and you try to do something good in your life, so many changes you have just seen. And only such experience will tell you that you are in love with someone. And right now it can be one sided love. When this process is on both sides, but they are unknown to each other, even then there can be one sided love. But it will soon make you feel that love is from both sides. Also we will talk about one-sided love.
The most important thing comes when you talk to each other, since then your intensity and energy starts to decline, and this is two-way love. Now giving time to each other in love and stress when there is no time for talking to each other reduce your performance gradually when it does not matter. Now there is a demand for love in various ways, and since then the purity of love is reduced. You have a breakup due to uncompromising to each other, after which 10% hope that you will be able to do very well.
So if you are single or in love on one side, then you should take your next step very thoughtfully. You just keep in mind the purity of love and if possible try to be happy in one-sided love. So keep in mind that love will give you energy as long as you keep love pure and if you do not put any demand in love, then it is good for you. Seeing the natural things around you, you will get a better direction and will always do something good.
Some of my friends who were very close to me told me about their experience. I remember very well how his life went on weeping and even now his condition is similar.
Is it as important as the rest of things? You will soon realize what is more important to you. You just live about half of your life.
Do you know why such relationships are formed? There can be two reasons for the formation of such relationships. The first reason may be that you want to have an experience that is completely new for you. The second reason is that you may be forced to form such relationships. Any external or internal thing may force you to form a relationship. It starts in just a moment, how wisely you live this time is very important.
Summary:-
I want to talk on this topic because it can be important for you. If we want to live a successful life, we should remember some essential truths. As we grow, we arn through books and people. Then one day, someone enters our life, and we experience something new—what we call love. It doesn’t come from outside; it was already within you, now surfacing in your eyes and expression. This experience brings energy, purpose, and transformation in your life.
You may be in one-sided love. Even if both people feel the same way but haven’t expressed it, it’s still one-sided. The moment conversations begin, the energy often starts to fade. Now, expectations arise, time demands increase, and slowly, the purity of love begins to erode. When you face stress or lack time for each other, performance drops. Eventually, relationships break due to lack of understanding or compromise.
After a breakup, only a few people are able to bounce back strongly. So, if you are single or in one-sided love, take your next step wisely. Try to preserve the purity of your feelings. If possible, find joy in unspoken love, without expectations or demands. Such love can still give you strength and inspiration to do better in life.
Some of my close friends have shared their painful love stories, and I remember how those experiences left them broken—some still haven’t healed.
Ask yourself—Is it as important as everything else in life? Eventually, you’ll know what truly matters. Life is still half remaining—make it count.
Relationships often form for two reasons:
- To experience something new and exciting.
- Because you are emotionally or circumstantially forced into it.
This chapter discusses emotional maturity in love, especially for young individuals. It urges readers to reflect before entering or reacting to relationships. Love brings power when pure, but loses meaning when filled with demands. If you’re single or in one-sided love, embrace it as an opportunity for personal growth instead of pain. Understand that you can find energy in emotions if you keep them clean and inspiring.