Chapter -21

21.BEWARE OF RELATIVES

   It is true that you feel very lonely without relationships. Your identity may also be reduced, but I want to talk to you today on this complex issue, can your relatives also be fatal to you? Are they exploiting you somewhere? Are they connected to you for any selfish purpose? We will discuss all these things, before making it clear that these things may not prove to be meaningful for everyone. There can also be people whose relationships are very important and worth valuing each other. But if you do not want to get involved with any external problem, then you should at least pay a little attention to the relationship. This will greatly help you to succeed. Why beware of relatives?

     Your relatives do all their experiments on you because you are very close to them. You believe in them and they take advantage of that. This relationship may seem important to you, but the person in front you can only mean selfishness. Although such relationships happen very rarely but when they happen, they put you in a big or small problem. It has not been my own experience but when I spoke to some of my friends, they shared their experiences.

     A friend of mine was made moneyless by a relative in a business case. My friend believed and invested all his money in his company, and the businessman did this not only with my friend but also with other relatives. Added them to his company too. A few days later, after collecting a good amount, he went somewhere. The company was formed for this purpose only. My friends and others invested money in the company because they believed why they would want to harm me on their own. Now my friend no longer trusts the relationship. So there is a point that beware of relatives.

      We do not have to do this. You have to take the relationship with you, but be careful if someone has a selfish attachment with you, then you should be careful. Although all this is rarely heard, but you should be careful.

      If you are a student and working towards building a better future, then you should stay away from your relatives. You just learn to stay focused on your goal. I have seen that there is no one else to condemn you who is closest to you, only your relatives or friends. They are at the top in condemnation. They can drop your morale and also increase.

Beware of Relatives

This chapter raises a sensitive yet significant concern—can your relatives sometimes harm your personal or professional growth? While relationships can be meaningful and supportive, it’s important to stay aware of hidden intentions, especially when trust is misused in the name of closeness.

The author shares insights based on real-life experiences where blind faith in family led to betrayal, financial loss, and emotional trauma. The lesson isn’t to break all ties but to remain vigilant, especially when dealing with matters involving trust, money, or decisions that affect your future.

For students and those building their careers, this chapter advises prioritizing focus over distractions and discouragement often caused by close relatives. Relationships should empower, not weaken. Caution and clarity are key.

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