7. BRINGS Harmony IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
Can we live without relationships? No. Because we are social and therefore there is a different need of relationships in our life. Right from the beginning of our life, relationships only make our recognition and people recognize us. Some relationships are lifelong and cannot be changed. Some relationships become just like this or our choice gives birth to those relationships. Let’s talk about importance of relationships. In today’s era, there is more talk of those relationships which just become like shaking eyes. Now you have grown a bit and you know very well what your mother and father mean to you. You have a unique relationship like this with your guru. There are many relationships with which we are connected, but some relationships are broken, due to some reason. When you break these relations, you accuse each other of your deficiencies and that you are deficient. In this way you also become a little weak, though sometimes you feel very happy without relationships and feel quite independent. But it depends on our thinking what we think and feel. Most relationships are our identity and strength.
Have you ever felt or thought about whether there is any such relationship in which you do not get cheated and keep making your presence felt every moment with a positive energy and motivating you to build a better future? I would say that there is such a relationship and it is important that we understand this and move on with life. Our biggest relationship is with nature and in this also you can make personal choices – sun, moon, stars, animals, and everything that is natural you can make choices and start a better relationship. You can make your relationship with all these things quite good but you wonder what is meant by these relationships. You think this right, but can you survive without food and water; No. It is absolutely true that you are related to food, water and other essential things. But the important thing is that you do this just for survival. You have a relationship with water because of you drink it, if not so then the word water does not mean anything to you. Other things like this too. All you have to do is change your perspective, the surrounding things are perfectly organized.
Today almost every person is disturbed, is suffering from some problem, his greed, selfishness or any other thing that would have changed his peace into turmoil. You can lead a unique life by connecting a relationship with nature. Evils are destroyed from inside you, you will see that your ideals will become great and you will be inspired to become a superhuman being.
Nevertheless, in order to live a social life, we have to maintain some relationships to maintain our connection with society and this is also important. We just have to keep in mind how to improve relationships. We need to know why relationships hurt or break. The first thing is to make the relationship with the right person and second thing is to understand the importance of each other in the relationship, understand the value of each other. When someone is talking to you or is doing, then you give importance to his words. You agreed with him only when he wants to just give importance to his words and everyone agrees with him. But you cannot do this everywhere, you cannot agree everywhere. But there will be many situations where you should try it. In order to maintain a better relationship, there should be no unnecessary comments of any kind in the relationship. Trust is the most important. When you follow this formula in your home, then a good family will be seen. You should not accuse each other, but try to understand each other. Give importance to each other’s feelings. There should be transparency in relationships. You should keep chasing the relationship like an artist to keep it going. Relationships can add to your success or can even make you fail, but I can say with confidence that if you are living a beautiful life with a great relationship, then there will be a problem in your life. You try to build a good relationship with this nature and also with the people around you.
You will live a good life and people along with you will also get a very pleasant experience from you.
📌 Summary: Brings Harmony in Your Relationships and importance of relationships-
The importance of relationships in human life is undeniable. From our very first breath, relationships define who we are. Whether it’s family, friends, or nature, every bond plays a role in shaping our identity. The importance of relationships is not just in connection, but in maintaining trust and emotional balance.
In modern times, conflicts often arise due to ego, expectations, and lack of communication. Understanding the importance of relationships helps us avoid blame games and encourages empathy. When we value the emotions of others and respond with sensitivity, relationships flourish.
This chapter highlights a unique idea — forming a deep bond with nature. From the sun and moon to water and animals, building a connection with the natural world adds calmness and strength to life. Recognizing the importance of relationships with nature can lead to internal peace and mental clarity.
To truly honor the importance of relationships, one must avoid harsh criticism, practice mutual respect, and foster open communication. These qualities are the foundation of a healthy personal and social life.
🔗 Related Chapters
- Chapter 6: Think Before Action
- Chapter 8: Should We Follow Anyone?
- Chapter 22: Small Things Are Also Important
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