30. IS YOUR BEST FRIEND YOUR ENEMY?
Surely you must be thinking of reading this tittle, how can your best friend be your enemy? It seems impossible; isn’t it. But this is so. First of all, you should know which friend I am talking about. Of course, you also want to know. This is your mobile phone. Yes! You read it right, it is your mobile. This is your best friend without it you feel so lonely. You are going to know very quickly that this is your enemy too. Let’s talk about mobile addiction.
   How is it swallowing our capabilities and our precious time and we allow it to happen quietly? It is snatching our money and time very easily. Before I discuss this further, let me tell you that if my words hurt you, please forgive me.
   I want to ask you two questions, the first question is what was your life like when you did not have a mobile phone? And the second question is what have you achieved since you have kept a mobile phone with you. If you have developed in every way, just with the help of this mobile then I can be wrong for you, forgive me. My aim is to show the right path to the next generation along with you. You know very well how important your mobile phone is to you. There are also those who take it with them all the time, no matter how it is, they do not leave it. Let’s control mobile addiction for upcoming generation.
   There has been a tremendous change in the mind-set and relationships of people compared to only a few years ago. Was it necessary? Yes, it is necessary, but if this change is fatal, then what is the benefit of such changes. How far we are going from natural rules, the association with people has also become full of perfect selfishness. Our relationship is now online. Even now, relationships break online. Some people also have an online breakup. Your mobile is like a bridge between relationships that keeps you connected to someone. Let’s stop mobile addiction or control this.
    In a way, this device only makes you weak, there are few people who use it to do something right. It always has a negative effect on our body. Mobile phone radiation has a profound effect on human health and environment. Scientists have classified mobile phone radiation as “possibly carcinogenic to humans”. Mobile phones and coffee, both possibly with carcinogenic substances, are classified. Some new studies have found that a relationship has been found between the use of mobile phones and tumours of the brain and salivary gland. Mobile phones affect negative emotions: When two people talk to each other, if a person calls when used it generates negative feelings of another person. According to some reports, mobile phone towers can cause many types of health loss such as- There may be abnormal growth in cells, brain tumours, loss of immune system capacity, sleep deprivation and anxiety, blood cancer in children, sterility and miscarriage and many other health related inconveniences.
   We have achieved much success in the field of communication in a very working time. But it has reduced or increased distance among people, think of it yourself. It is difficult to correct the mistakes that we have made because it is very difficult to break the relationship in the way it connects with us. But we can do a small favour on our upcoming generation. Please try to keep those children away from this special device. It is your responsibility to keep your children away from mobile phones. If you keep him away from mobile now, then when your child grows up, he will give you many blessings. Do not focus on his present demand, if you are the parents of that child then you should focus on his future. You are playing with the future of the child for today’s happiness. A good parent keeps their children away from everything that hinders their development. So why do you want to keep your children with an enemy?
    To watch young children, laugh and play, you give them a smartphone because you do not have time. You are so busy with your work that you do not have time to give to children. I do not understand it, why and for whom are you alive? For whom are you thinking of earning money day and night. You do it for your family and children only. Mobile addiction comes from a lot of enjoy and never end.
    If you understand this, then you can make a better future for your children. And you must do this, it is your responsibility. You are so attached to your smartphone that you forget who came in front of you, sat and went. In the eyes of people, you are careless. You remember those moments when you were left losing your smartphone. When your phone suddenly goes missing, you have so much problem. Now most people keep all their important things in their phones and it is not very reliable as security. Therefore, it becomes even more important that we reduce the use of mobile phones from work. If you suddenly stop using the phone, then in the beginning you have an empty experience in your life. But if you want, you can easily agree to use this device for some limited work. This in itself would be a huge success. If you can keep your children away from this attraction along with you then you will be with a better family in the coming days. You can do this; you just have to limit it.
Summary: Mobile Addiction
Surely you must be thinking of reading this title, how can your best friend be your enemy? It seems impossible; isn’t it. But this is so. First of all, you should know which friend I am talking about. Of course, you also want to know. This is your mobile phone. Yes! You read it right, it is your mobile…
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Your mobile phone may feel like your best friend, but it could be your biggest enemy too. While it helps in communication and convenience, it is also silently damaging your health, stealing your time, weakening real-life relationships, and affecting children’s development. This chapter highlights the hidden negative impacts of mobile usage and motivates you to control itânot completely leave it, but use it wiselyâfor your sake and for your childrenâs future. Mobile addiction is harmful for children.
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