Wasting life in Memories
It is very important that if you are not happy, then you will not do the most interesting work that you will have. It will be very difficult to start afresh. Grief is like a disease and does not come from any particular source. It can be found by everything that you are in contact with. Directly or indirectly connected to you. Most of our sorrows are caused by our relationships because relationships are connected to our emotions in such a way that life feels empty if they are not there. I want to focus my attention on the youth of today who are moving away from their present and future with regard to a special relationship. Our promising youth, whose need is being felt in the country and society, to build a good society and country. Today most of them are forgetting their reality with some special memories. Let’s talk about why people are Wasting life in memories.
   It can happen at any stage of life. You cry with some special memories. It is usually more in that phase of life when you are trying ways to live life. In an experience, you get involved in a relationship. A relationship that initially generates an energy and intensity in you. So you are in a relationship that is psychologically connected to your feelings, when this relationship is transient and then it goes away from you but some of its memories are attached to your feelings. And usually such breakups occur. Some unknown people go through this process and destroy their entire lives. So what should we do so that we do not spoil our present with these weeping memories of the past.
   When we are in our development process and moving forward in life, then we should avoid forming such relationships so that we can be able to do something in the future. We have to pay attention that we do not give more importance to such relationships in our life so that you would imagine your life without those relationships. Your life is very important; you should not waste it in someone’s memories. People have no right to play with your feelings. You are a complete personality in yourself. You should not worry about anyone come or go in your life. If you keep on crying, then when will you smile. You decide how important your life is.
   You must have heard and read many incidents in which a normal looking young man lives a complicated life and makes the surrounding environment even sad. Is all this necessary to live a life? You just keep in mind that you do not have to get engaged in any special relationship keeping in mind humanity. Walking on a natural ideal is one with natural rules.
 We have seen that young people with some unique abilities are mostly stuck in such difficult situations. Because such youth are very receptive and think more. They think that every work should be done honestly. But the person in front is honest? Do you think that if you are honest and the person in front is not honest then it is obvious that your relationship will end your honesty or the relationship will break after some time? Most honest people suffer when the relationship breaks down. In this way, it is not better to waste your time and future to build such a relationship. You start, you will be happy to live a better life and it is sure that you will succeed.
   Here you might think that I am wrong. Relationships are formed with great difficulty and I say that do not give importance to these relationships, do not make relationships. But you tell me what you lack, you have every basic relationship that is maintaining your life and bringing a good identity in the society. You are doing well, then what is the need to join a relationship that will change everything. Is it necessary wasting life in memories?
   My motive is not to hurt your feelings, but to live a better life, you must pay attention to my words once. No one knows how many people forget their own existence in these memories. They live with a pain that has no medicine. So the biggest cure is to avoid this disease. If you are big enough now, I mean that you have exceeded the time limit in which there are more opportunities to form such a relationship, then an important task for you is to wake up those people who are now on Leads to living a new life. You tell them what to do about such a relationship. May you live a successful life and always take care of yourself.
📌 Summary: Wasting life in memories
When you’re wasting life in memories, your present becomes stagnant and your future unclear. Relationships leave deep emotional marks, and when they break, many people—especially youth—remain trapped in emotional pain instead of moving forward.
This chapter urges the reader to recognize their own value. Your life is not meant to be stuck in someone’s past presence. You are a complete individual and must choose whether you want to smile or continue crying over the past. Avoiding such attachments is not a sign of weakness, but a step toward wisdom.
Young people with sensitivity and intelligence often suffer the most. They believe in honesty, but not everyone reciprocates that honesty. Instead of wasting life in memories, it is better to start afresh and focus on building your future.
Emotional pain can become a long-lasting wound. The only cure is prevention: don’t let temporary relationships control your permanent potential. Guide others too—especially those on the edge of emotional collapse. Help them rise, and you’ll rise too.
🔗 Related Chapters
- Chapter 7: Brings Harmony in Your Relationships
- Chapter 9: Can Knowledge Stop Success?
- Chapter 13: Your Present and Future
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